A man is considered a Bear if he is hairy, well built, hyper masculine, with this strong cuddly body and appearance, yet with a heart as big as his chest.

However, the word "Bear" means many things to different people, even within the bear movement. Many men who do not have one or all of these characteristics define themselves as bears, making the term a very loose one. "Bear" is often defined as more of an attitude than anything else - a sense of comfort with our natural masculinity and bodies that is not slavish to the vogues of male attractiveness that is so common in gay circles and the culture at large.

 

He has a tendency to growl in his sleep and during other bed activities. He is unashamed of bodily-function noises and practicality dictates his fashion tastes and lifestyle.

 

I might say that a Bear man is every straight man's gay fantasy!

 

Strong powerful and talented guy...caring and thoughtful...

 

 

Now lets do Dude:

Dude is a universal word used in every possible corner on the globe, in every possible situation and will make sense and create empathy between dudes. It’s a brilliant word.

Based on the pronunciation or as an interjection that implies sympathy, admiration, shock, approval or other strong positive feelings. Expresses sadness, anger, excitement, fear, sexual arousal, discomfort and or the lack of anything to say.

 

Dude, listen, this is serious.

Duuude !! guess what? You are not gonna belive this!

Dude, dude, dude, hot dude at my nine o’clock!

DUUuude, what you said was not cool, dude.

Dude? Will you hand me my phone?

Dude! Its good to see you.

 

Referring to a person, a dude is an enlightened person who has achieved total calmness, absolute coolness, the one who any one can look up to with confidence, with such awe in their eyes that sparkles with a thousand shining stars.

 

So after mixing and blending all these ingredients, I came out with the final fusion:

BEAR DUDE.

 

Bear Dude is a strong, powerful, talented, enlightened, calm, absolute, caring and thoughtful ‘coolness’ guy.

 

Yes I will say it, a BEAR DUDE is every straight man gay’s fantasy.